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just delete the messages....
--- Otto wrote:
I recommend that we all just delete his messages without reading
whenever we see them posted.
--- end quote ---
Otto's entire message was right on target, and I have saved it
for future reference.
His recommendation quoted above is what all of us on radsafe
should do. Behavioral psychologists say that there are three
ways to change behavior: 1) reward appropriate behavior, 2)
punish inappropriate behavior, 3) ignore inappropriate behavior.
They say that the most effective way is #3, simply ignore
inappropriate behavior. No matter how emotionally satisfying it
is to point out how absurd someone's post is, the best way to
stop them from saying absurd things is to simply ignore them.
Then they go away. Their personal payoff is the attention that
we give them. Please, stop paying them....
-Stephen
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